What’s sex got to do with it?

Sex has become a common tool used around the world today in different shapes and forms. It is a big business everywhere you look which stems from the entertainment industry, the medical field (cosmetic surgery), fashion, prostitution, pornography,TV and radio shows. Be very sensitive to your environment and what drives your thoughts because sex is driven by so many things around us. Sex out of marriage is filthy and cheap period.

God created sex for 3 main reasons

• It is a bonding tool and a powerful binding force. Sex in itself cannot sustain a relationship as a bond. Genesis 2:24
• For procreation; there is no way to multiply without sex at least for most people. Genesis 1:28
• It is sacred, pleasurable, and a beautiful thing to be enjoyed by two people (male and female) as one in marriage. Proverbs 5:19

Most men don’t necessarily equate sex with emotions, women on the other hand gets attached emotionally and physically after sex.

You are not married until you are married, being engaged and having a wedding date ahead is no passport to sex.

Remember once your innocence is gone you cannot get it back BUT you can become a secondary virgin because we operate under the grace of God.

Some questions to ponder on

The next conference call would be opened to any question and no question is off limit... This is just a head start.

• Should I wait for a man whom is not where he needs to be financially and constantly needing help?
• How do you recover from a broken heart and is there a time frame to wait before getting into another relationship?
• How can you tell if a guy really wants you or just wants to be with you for sex alone?
• It is a sin to have premarital sex but how does one stop once one have started?

Have any questions, feel free to post it on the comment page.

Education and Commitment

Education

How important is the level of education of your potential mate?

Education goes beyond academics and also depends greatly on your background. Education is how opened one is being exposed to different things in life in regards to culture, thoughts, ideas, interpretation of issues and events. Some men prefer not to marry a woman that has several college degrees above what they have acquired and some women prefer men with a minimum level of education which can vary. As a woman it is important to choose a man that meets the level of educational requirement that you need or have set for yourself because you want a man that would not only make logical decisions but also lead you the right way.

Commitment

Think about things you do each day and how much commitment you dedicate to them; every single thing we do in life involves some type of commitment but with varying degrees. Commitment is a pledge or assurance to be there regardless of what happens and when it happens, it can vary depending on the stage you are in your relationship from friendship, courtship, engagement to marriage. In any relationship compatibility is very paramount because it causes people to break their vows and commitment to each other which in turn causes distrust. It is impossible to make any kind of relationship work without commitment be it your relationship with God, or the person you are courting or married to. Being committed to the wrong person or thing would lead to a bitter end and would stop you from accomplishing what God has intended for you. Your first and primary commitment should be your personal relationship with God, yourself and then others. It is important to know how deeply the person you are committing yourself to is committed to their faith, family, friends and promises they make which can be a benchmark for you to know how committed they would be to you. Your potential mate should be one that is committed to accomplishing your goal and vision and vice versa.

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