Compatibility is a major key in any form of courtship or marriage. Compromising compatibility because of romantic sentiments especially in areas of religion, vision, and background may result in a very painful end. Most times we are too engulfed in the romance part of our relationship that we forget about all other important aspect that makes up a relationship. You should have a list of uncompromising things that you must have in a mate in order not to make the wrong choice. Also, have a bench mark of what is important to you not what you desire or prefer but what you need. Now, its not just about putting up a list, you have to know whom you are as a person in order to be able to assess someone else.
Some questions to ponder on
Would YOU marry YOU?
Is this person worth a lifetime investment?
What are things about your partner that YOU need to know and
how important are these things?
Who are YOU?
What do YOU have to offer an intended mate?
Whom can YOU live with?
Are we compatible spiritually, intellectually, mentally, socially etc?
Put on your thinking caps and think people. Take a minute and ponderrrrr.....
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Hmmmm....How come everyone thinks I'm their dream girl and they don't even come close to the "d" of "dream" guy. Please what am I doing wrong? The only guy I thought was close to the "d" of dream guy was the King of stingy.
ReplyDeletePlease pray with me.........
Dream Girl
You are not doing anything wrong its just that you are yet to meet the "dream guy". It happens all the time but what we do as women is we try to settle as long as he meets some of the requirements on our lists and ignore the rest. Dream girl keep your head up and don't try to settle.
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